Tagged by Vanessa

1. What is the relationship of you and her/him?
~ She's my friend AND an ex-colleague

2. Your 5 impressions towards her/him?
~ sweet

~ cute

~ friendly

~ kind

~ caring

~3. The most memorable things she/he had done for you.
~ the only person hu gave me the nickname 'Chiken Little Gor Gor'

4. The most memorable things she/he have said to you.
~ she called me the nickname.

5. If she/he become your lover, you will..
~ appreciate her because she's one of a kind girl.

6. If she/he become your enemy, you will...
~ she's that type that will never be my enemy.

7. If she/he become your lover, she/he has to improve on..
~ reducing her emo-ness.

8. If she/he become your enemy, the reason is...
~ she's possessed.

9. The most desirable thing to do on her/him is?
~ to love her. as a friend, i mean.

10. The overall impression of her/him is..
~ cute!

11. How do you think the people around you feel about you?
~ depends on what group of people.

12. The character of you for yourself is?
~ unique.

13. What do you hate about yourself?
~ physically lack of height n weight.

14. The most ideal person that you want to be is?
~ my future wife who's non existent yet.

15. For the people who care about you and like you, say something to them
~ for everyone, take good care of yourself and drink more water cuz it's very hot these few days thanks to global warming.

Ten people to tag:

~ Cally
~ Mei Mei
~ David
~ Hayley
~ Siew Lee
~ Andrew
~ Jas Khor
~ Pei Anne
~ Amy
~ Elaine

Who is no.2 having a relationship with?
~ Mei Mei...someone from the lecture hall.

No.3 a male or a female?
~ David...XY genetic chromosome arrangement.

If no.7 and no.10 were together, would it be a good thing?
~ Jas & Elaine...they're both females and they don't know each other.

How about no.5 and 8?
~ Siew Lee & Pei Anne...same as above.

What is no.1 studying about?
~ Cally... A levels! same as mine.

Is no.4 single?
~ no, definately no. because she's my bro's gf!

Say something about no.6.
~ Andrew...holy guy.


That's all. Goodbye!

P/S: for those names who're mentioned on top, it's not a must to do this.

"Bad Boys" VS "Mr Nice Guys"

There's a saying goes "Nice guys finish last". Sometimes I wonder if this quotation is really true. Apparently it is. I find this topic as very interesting actually.

"[According to McDaniel (2005), popular culture and dating advice "suggest that women claim they want a 'nice guy' because they believe that that is what is expected of them when, in reality, they want the so-called 'challenge' that comes with dating a not-so-nice guy."]"

-Extracted from Wikipedia.

The problem with being a "nice guy" is that, generally, woman don't find them attractive. This is especially they're at this age around 17, 18, 19, 20 and the early 20s.

At this age, do you think girls prefer "bad boys" who are confident, attractive, sexy, playful, talkative, funny and exciting rather than "nice guys" who are relatively shy, less talkative, doesn't joke much and more to a caring, sensitve and attentive kind?

In other words, those "bad boys" are more flirtatious and more aggressive towards their converations and interactions with girls, compared to the opposite party who're more conservative and more respectful towards girls.

Personally, I would say that the former wins- if the girls are looking more for a short term, "click straight away" kind of relationship.

There's a quotation cited as "girls just wanna have fun". Yeah, I mean, at this age, 18-19 years, which girl doesn't want to be constantly entertained by a humorous and funny boyfriend?

Another line from Wikipedia,
"Some women offered flattering interpretations of the nice guy, characterizing him as committed, caring, and respectful of women. The young immature majority, however, emphasized more negative aspects, considering the nice guy to be boring, lacking confidence, and unattractive."

It kinda sums up that these "bad boys" are more looking forward to short-term relationship without really thinking about their future, whereas the "nice guys" tends to be more loyal, more committed and would do his best to sustain a long term relationship.

Ironic to say "nice guys finish last", however, they don't always lose. At the end of the day, in the end, if both opposing guys are battling for a long term relationship, the "nice guys" tend to survive it better based on their general properties.

I'm not sure how true it is. However, statistically, sadly, AT THIS AGE, it's true that girls do prefer the "bad boys". I'm pretty sure some of you might disagree though, and this post might be controversial. You can argue all you like. However, these are facts. Nothing much to deny that. For me, personally, I'm [starting to] feel it's true.

Take note that I'm not pointing this to anyone or myself. This is just a general post without criticizing anyone, anyhow. However, if you would ask me whether I'm categorized as a "bad boy" or a "nice guy", judging by the traits and properties of both parties, I feel I'm more to the latter one.


...And I'm quite sure some of you might've heard people say "That's it! No more Mr Nice Guy!" because they're too frustrated by the way they're being treated.




For me, I would NOT say that...yet. (Not for now, though.)

Three-Sum

First of all I'm sorry for the voidness of updates in these few days. Well, not like I don't wanna update, it's just that the stupid DSL kept blinking. Really having lousy connections in these 2 days. And I'm thankful that at least it's just started to function more stabily now.

Anyway, in this post I'll touch about what happened in the previous days, impressions of me being upset about certain issues, and focus ahead of the upcoming weeks.


Last few days had been average. Even today actually, is arguably the worst.
The weekend is dull and boring. Arguably due to the crappy internet connection. Besides, I'm not like a person who loves watching TV and can go on all day sitting on the couch staring the box. Astro is really kinda shitty on EVERY weekends, especially during the afternoon. I don't know bout you guys la, but all of those programmes doesn't suit me at all. Premier movies at night are also dumby. HBO premiered Georgia Rule on Sunday- starred by Lindsay Lohan. I hate her, really.
Also, it's very routine and gloomy due to the rainy days and it can only be summarised by a word- boring.

Yesterday is Monday. There's nothing much to talk bout yesterday really, as my class finished on 11. I feel it's too early. Today finished at 12. Tomorrow suddenly jumps to 4pm. Lousy schedule i feel. Anyway, back to today, I'm late for 8am Physics class. Reached DK only 1/2 an hour later. Not that I intended to be late, but my car pool friend is late. Other than that I got nothing else to comment on that.

About impressions that I'm upset with what happened regarding the 'girl' I mentioned about in the previous 2 posts, I would say that it doesn't affect me at all- in any way. There's no such thing whereby I have impressions of being jealous or wat, not at all. It's just a touch-n-go comment on them, nothing more than that. So Cal, don't misunderstood okay... I'm perfectly fine.

Lastly, the final test will be on from 11 to 14/15 I think. It's not a big test or wat, nothing too serious about that. However, If I DO fail, that will be a problem especially when it comes to the Parents-Lecturers Day. The main cause for concern is Maths. A MAJOR concern. I also don't know how I'm gonna actually sit there alone and do it.

Nonetheless, at least the lecturer, Miss Melissa gave tips today. So that would be a cause for optimism. Other than that, I feel I can only start concentrating seriously on Chemistry & Physics only a week before the test, as it looks like I don't have the "exam pressure" yet.


Anway, sorry if this post bores you, as that's how the nature my life is now in these few days.

Bye and take good care of yourself =).

Happy Birthday Brigette!

This is what you get when you skip tutorial classes at TAR College.

(Click for clearer view)

They send the letters directly to your house, with either your father/mother's name on it. Apparently, if you miss more than 1 tutorial class in a month, you're gonna get it.
The moral of the story: Don't skip more than once. One per month is OK.

The reason why I missed those classes is that, it's on Wednesday, the day I got 1 Chemistry tutorial, 2 General Paper tutorials, 1 Maths Applied lecture, 1 Physics tutorial and finally 1 Maths Applied tutorial. Basically all the tutorials crammed up in a day in which the Maths Applied tutorial is on 3-4pm.

By that time, it's already tiring + lose concentration + I don't do Maths homework + I hate maths + I have to walk to LRT station to go KL Central, change to KTM, wait for the train, then travel to Segambut where finally I have to walk another 25 mins to reach home. That adds up to about 1 hour 15 mins from the train at LRT station. Very sien 1 okayyy....... understand abit laa...

But anyway I don't plan to skip anymore lah, as the test will commence in 3 weeks time, plus at least Miss Evelyn is one of the better looking lecturers at TARC.

To other things, few are acknowledged that the other day, I made a card to someone for her birthday. Her name is Brigette. It's actually my first time making a card for someone on the person's birthday. It took quite much longer than I expected to complete it. I bought those papers in the evening, and started work at around 9.30pm. The inside of the card itself it took very long. By the time wanted to do the cover of the card, before I knew it, it's already 1am.

Progress at 12:04am, 15 Oct 08, her birthdate.

Thankfully, for the very first time, my class on Wednesday this week started on 11am, unlike the other 8am classes. So I woke up at 7.30am, and continued doing it and at last it's done. Sorry lah I didn't manage to take pictures of the end product of the card because I didn't thought of it + I don't have time for it. In the end I'm fairly happy with the card, and I really hope she'll like it anyway.


Nonetheless, I feel it's a hard work paid off. After all, why not?

About Love & Attractions

I wanted to write, but initially I duno wat to write, then I asked Kei for opinions la, she said write bout girls, frens, daily life n funny things wor. I honestly feel there's nothing much to spit out at this moment (or these few days) cuz life is just isn't happening enough. Not like I'm a person who likes to write about what I did da whole day, from listing who I went out with la, go where la, this la, that la. Not like I'm reporting about the day. But the truth is that there's nothing much happening to me lately. Good and bad.

However, apparently there's alot of things happening AROUND me, from people who broke off from relationships to people who juz started new love. For the couple who disintegrated, I feel kinda sorry for the male because apparently it's the female who discharged herself under pathetic reason. Honestly speaking, she attracted me with her appearence once in the very early times since the semester commenced. But no. Not now, not few months ago, no more already. Nevertheless, I feel the guy have enough quality in terms of appearence to attract his opposite sex.

For the couple who juz got together, well I don't know exactly how many people around me who got off to their relationships lately, but this particular couple it's kinda significant and "something to talk about" as the girl is, well, I think it's fair for me to say that she's one of the best looking ones in the DK. And I feel people will agree with me. (DK stands for Dewan Kuliah for those who don't know ; a lecture hall)

For the guy, I describe him as lucky. Really, it's a must to treasure, take care and appreciate her. And to you who feels you're the one I'm emphasizing about, congratulations and have great times ahead. Well, you will anyway.


Anyway, to other things, talk bout girls, to be honest, they can only get better. A glance around the college will tell you that. They tend to know much better to dress up, and outstand themselves. Some of them are which I describe them as "head turners" ; Some keeps you wondering whether they're pretty or not when you look at them from far or in a position whereby you can't really see their faces clearly ; Some have high sex appeal - Sex appeal doesn't exactly mean only their tight, short clothes, it's combined with the way they look and the eye contact they give you ; Some are cute and gives you the "please-take-care-of-me" look ; While some are just typical "leng luis" in which usually the Chinese guys describe as ; And lastly there's the categorically few ones whom I want to be with them for the rest of my life.

I'm sorry if I offended anyone, but it's just the way guys are. This is because apparently, the fact is that, not to mean anything, but most of the readers here are ladies - am I right to say so? It's human nature for males to look at females anyway - and vice versa.

Lastly, the final test for this year will be conducted in merely a month, and honestly i haven't actually really study anything yet - especially maths, which i got 7D for SPM. Great huh. Nonetheless, I feel I can do Chemistry and Physics.





Probably not.

College Returns

I'm back to college!... or shall I say, college is back!

The fact that after a week break, the thing that matters most is not that I go back to college, see friends, study, and so on...

The more important thing is that people from all around the diplomas are back after a few weeks of holidays. TARC is not TARC when those people are not around, if you know what I mean. So used to having multicellular organisms with genetic chromosome arrangement of XX walking around. But when their holidays started, poof! it's like college has lost it's gloss.

But now the fact is that they're back, the fact is that it's alot more interesting there, and certainly the overall environment and atmosphere lingering around the college have improved massively. I'm sorry, but college is kinda dull when it's not in the "full team". Teehee!=)


Anyway, the other day I just bought Year of the Gentleman! At last...And on the same day bought the much awaited FIFA09. And on the same day watched Eagle Eye. All in 1u. Eagle Eye does not dissapoint at all. It's really good. 4.5/5. Certainly 1 of the best movies I've watched this year. Niway thanks to Rodney for da ride. I owe u aite man...

It's 11.08pm now. Gotta go do Chem tutorial. Mr David Loh's class tomorrow. Hehe!
Adios warm-blooded creatures.

Tagged by Cally

A) People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs.

Donnid to tag other people lah~
Basically the people I wanted to tag have been tag by Cally and company.
Summore it's so long, packed with 100 questions lol...who would've take time to do it...unless the person is really free lah...

Anyway;

01. What have you been doing recently?
Most of da time stayed at home

02. Do you ever turn your cell phone off?
Nopez

03. What happened at 10.00am today?
Juz came back from market after fetching mum...

04. When did you last cry?
A year ago??? when a couple of kittens I adopted sumwhere died =(.

05. Believe in fate/destiny?
70% yes.

06. What do you want in your life right now?
Being able to travel around the world. As if.

07. Do you carry an umbrella when it rains, or just put up your hood?
Hood.

8. What's your favourite thing to have on your bed?
Comforter, which I have 2!

9. What bottom are you wearing now?
Shorts.

10. What's the nicest text in your inbox say?
hmm..."miss u"? perhaps?

11. Do you tend to make a relationship complicated?
Nope but the fact is that relationships ARE complicated whether u like it or not.

12. Are you wearing anything you borrowed from someone?
Nop.

13. What was the last movie you caught?
Wall-E.

14. What are you proud of?
My own style.

15. What does the oldest message in your inbox says?
How could I remember..

16. What was the last song you sang out loud?
I can't recall that.

17. Do you have any nicknames?
-Egg tart
-Chicken Wing
-Wingy
-Chicken Little Gor Gor (lol thx to Vanessa!)

18. What does your last received text message say?
"Put on ur alarm k...Mayb i'll play [foot]ball oso...."

19. What time did you go to bed last night?
Around 12.30

20. Are you currently happy?
60% happy.

21. Who gives you best advice?
Friends.

22. Do you eat whipped cream straight from the can?
No.

23. Who did you talk on phone last night?
Night...none.

24. Is anything bugging you right now?
I should be sleeping cuz it's already 1am now as tomoro's class is at 8.

25. What/who was the last thing/person to make you laugh?
Spongebob Squarepants.

26. Do you wear toe socks?
No.

27. Who was the last person you missed a call from?
Unknown number.

28. Have you ever had your heartbroken?
Precisely once.

29. What annoys you most in a person?
Untolerable egoness.

30. Do you have a crush on anyone?
Not now. Honestly.

31. Have you ever done cocaine?
No.

32. What is the colour of your room?
White.

33. Would you kill someone you hate for a billion dollar?
If money can buy me out of jail, wouldn't affect my records, possibly. Well maybe not.

34. Do you believe in the saying of : talk is cheap?
Why isit so?

35. Who was the last person to lie in your bed?
Myself.

36. Who was the last person to hug you?
hmm...

37. Did anyone see the last person you kissed?
Nope.

38. Do you have a life?
Yes.

39. Have you ever think someone died, when they really didn't die?
Biologically, no. lol.

40. What is the reason behind your profile song?
Nope no profile song.

41. Who was the last person you saw in your dream?
Can't remember.

42. Last time you smiled?
Moments ago.

43. Have you changed this year?
Yes.

44. What are you listening right now?
Nop no songs cuz tv is on.

45. Are you talking to someone when you doing this?
Nope.

46. Do you walk with your eyes open or closed?
Worst question ever.

47. Is there a quote you live by?
Depends on which aspect of life...

48. Do you want someone you cannot have?
Yes. But not now.

49. Have you ever played an instrument?
Guitar? piano? drum? But I don't learn them.

50. What was the worst idea you've had in this week?
Leaving the internet connection and cables on while it's thunderstorm outside.

51. What are you doing last night at 11pm?
Watching Sunderland vs Arsenal.

52. Are you happy with your love life right now?
Nothing to be happy about, yet nothing to whine/complain about.

53. What song best describe your love life?
None accurately.

54. Does the person know that you like him/her?
Nopez. Not for now.

55. Who always make you laugh?
Friends.

56. Do you speak other language other than English?
Cantonese, Malay.

57. Favourite website(s)?
Lazy to list.

58. What's your middle name?
Wing. That's how Chicken Wing came from.

59. What are you doing tomorrow?
College, sleep, eat, on9, sleep.

60. What do you think you are like?
Human.

61. Who will you choose to die with?
Y would I wanna die wif sum1 else....

62. Where have you been today?
Desa Parkcity to jog, mamak, market, CC.

63. What game do you play often?
Football, shooting, action.

64. Who are you missing right now?
None.

65. If you have to choose between friend and love, who will you choose?
Depends on situation.

66. What are you doing right now?
Another dumb question.

67. Which primary school are you from?
SK Kepong Baru.

68. Name 3 colours that you like?
Orange, Black, Cyan.

69. What emotion you like to show?
=).

70. What is your life to you?
For me to live with.

71. If you have something troubling you, what will you do?
Think bout it.

72. Who did you last chat in msn today?
No time to MSN.

73. Who do you admire most?
Ne-Yo.

74. Which month are you born in?
September

75. How are you feeling right now?
Neutral.

76. What is the time now?
1.26am.

77. What kind of person do u think the one who tagged you is?
Optimistic! lol...

78.What colour did you use to dye hair?
Naturally black.

79. Why are you doing this test?
Because sum1 purposedly went to my chat box n asked me to do it.

80. What do you do when you're moody?
Sleep.

81. At which age you wish to get married?
From 23 to 28?? LOL.

82. Who is more important to you?
Family.

83. If today is the last day of your life, what will you do?
To travel around the world and do the things I want.

84. Who is the person you trust the most?
Family.

85. Do you believe in seeing a rainbow after a rain?
Rainbows DO exist after a rain.

86. If you have a dream come true, what would it be?
To travel around the world. AGAIN.

87. What is your goal for this year?
Main goal is to improve myself.

88. Do you believe in eternity love?
No. Love is too uncertain to be eternity.

89. What feeling do you love most?
Being able to free myself sumwhere n not thinking about any problems.

90. Do you really think its Global Warming now?
Yes, of course.

91.What feeling do you hate the most?
Dissapointment.

92. Do you cherish every single friendship of yours?
Yes.

93. Do you believe in God?
Yes.

94. Who cares for you most?
Family, friends.

95. What do you think is the most important thing in your life?
Money. Family. Friends.

96. What will you bring when you fight?
What u mean bring?? I'll bring "ka chang"s.

97. What have you done regretted doing in your whole life?
Squandered the chance to cherish the best love of my life so far.

98. What would you feel if no one no longer cares for you?
I gotta be independent. Everyone has to be that one day. (if that happens...)

99. What if your boyfriend/girlfriend two-timed you?
Go on.

100. HOW DO U FEEL NOW?
Sleepy.

At last, done!
Good nite people, or if you're reading this at noon/evening, good day and take care =).

Interests Part I

Frankly, there's little to update these days. I'm not feeling very well, been having a slight flu, and internet connection is unstable.

The other day my bro was using the comp while it's drizzling outside, and out of nowhere, suddenly a bright light flashed outside and bang! a loud noise emerged from the modem. All the electrical appliances went out as the fuse is activated. And you know what's next lah, the modem is totaled.

Thankfully, there's a spare modem which acts as backup. If not, I wouldn't know what to do at home in these boring few days.

On Friday I skipped Physics & Applied Maths classes, sorry la I don't mean to skip Physics but it's just so "not-in-the-mood" to study especially during the holiday week. Haihz. During that week some of my friends go Japan la, Penang la, Malacca la, here and there. Damn I don't know when was da last time I get outta this neighbourhood, and have fun sumwhere else.

And believe it or not, I've NEVER been on a plane before, not even once in my 18 years of living so far. So yeah, forget about Japan, forget about Europe. Not untill probably 5-10 years from now. And that's when work fo my own living.

Anyway, to other things, I can't wait to buy FIFA 09. It's certainly the best football game of the year and clearly the best FIFA series ever.

Mentioning about games, people might think I'm a person that don't play DOTA, especially the guys from college. Well, probably because the game is vastly played by those typical Chinese guys, which I'm not. I actually played that game alot during my Form2 & Form 3 years, but since Form 4 I started not to play it, and nowadays I dun play anymore because I don't feel addicted to it, and I prefer single-player games now.

Since it's already 9.35PM now, I gotta get to bath and get ready for the Arsenal's game against Sunderland at 10PM. I'm a huge Arsenal fan if you don't know.

And Cally, bout da tag thing, I'm gonna publish it up in the upcoming post, alright? ;).

Bye and take care.

Happy Birthday...again!

While my birthday is on the 25th Sept, my mum's on 30th.

So, my family & I went to the Happy City Steamboat restaurant yesterday, located directly behind the famous Happy City food court at Metro Prima, Kepong.

The special thing about the steamboat is that, behind the normal tom-yam + normal soup pot, is a pot of plain porridge for u to put those raw foods in.

Another thing about the steamboat is their Seafood package, which costs RM118.00 for 5 person. That's about RM23.60 per person. However, that's never enough for 7 of us, therefore we ordered a few of the normal sets which totaled the bill up to about RM180.

Kinda recommended as the prawns in the Seafood set is very fresh, as it's still jumping around when the workers brought them to our table lol. So while they're still jumping around we juz threw them into the soup and porridge. Ouch...

After that, we went home and my sis bought a "a special" cake from Secret Recipe.

What so special about the cake? it's a combination of 7 types of completely different cheese cakes.

Not your ordinary birthday cakes =).

Since there's only 7 of us, & the portion of those normal RM70-RM80 whole cake is probably too much for us, so that'll just do it.

And that's about it. Talking bout birthdays, I would like to thank everyone who wished me, from SMSes, Friendster, Facebook, MSN, their blogs to people who wished me at college. Also, happy belated birthday to Dwight, Yasini, Shu Ying, and a few others librans.

Moving on the some other things, the other day I went Old Town with Ryan & Alex, in which I ordered Blackcurrent Yogurt Smoothie.

Other than that, there's nothing much special happening these days, but the movie Eagle Eye is a must-watch-no-matter-what sumwher in these holidays. Personally, I feel it's really anticipating. Untill then, goodbye for now.